They have such a weird relationship
The weirdest thing to me is how he was saying he is most happy with his man and they would fly thousand miles to see each other for like a moment, goes on trips, love and kisses on IG, then not even month passes between he posts with a new boyfriend or daddy or however you call him and how they are the most amazing person in the world and how they make you feel complete. I liked him and I liked his work in WTBA but jesus, this boyfriend obsession and a need to have a new guy every week that is the best person you ever met is sickening in gay society. Constant chase. Constant over exposure.
 
The weirdest thing to me is how he was saying he is most happy with his man and they would fly thousand miles to see each other for like a moment, goes on trips, love and kisses on IG, then not even month passes between he posts with a new boyfriend or daddy or however you call him and how they are the most amazing person in the world and how they make you feel complete. I liked him and I liked his work in WTBA but jesus, this boyfriend obsession and a need to have a new guy every week that is the best person you ever met is sickening in gay society. Constant chase. Constant over exposure.
I remember him from Bear411, 15 or 20 years ago, doing the exact same thing. His profile would be gushing about how the guy he was dating could walk on water and cure cancer, then 3 weeks later he'd be single again. It was WAY over the top and made him look like a fool.
 
I remember him from Bear411, 15 or 20 years ago, doing the exact same thing. His profile would be gushing about how the guy he was dating could walk on water and cure cancer, then 3 weeks later he'd be single again. It was WAY over the top and made him look like a fool.
Bro, you literally make me not crazy.
I'm so torn apart about this. Because you can say, then don't follow anyone, and that's what I did. I stumbled upon his profile again by mistake and I quit most social media for 2 years. I feel like everyone should be left on their own and there's nothing to it, it's their life. But can we just agree how fucking not healthy that is? I see this more often and often and I hate how it portrays our community, I hate how less serious we're being viewed as gay people in relationships and I think this needs therapy lmao.
I don't understand it. You have this guy who is handsome, funny, seems intelligent, seems with good intention. Why such a big need to evaluate your self-worth through a person you know for three days?
 
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